Saturday, December 31, 2011

Happy New Year!!!

Happy New Year!!!!

Over the past year we've had a whirlwind of excitement come to the Ward Family.

In January we welcomed Liam into our family. We didn't quite expect him to come into this world the way that he did, but with the power of prayer, and the many, many doctors, nurses and medical staff we are proud to know now, he has made a full recovery and is a happy (almost) ONE YEAR OLD!! From his 30 day stay in the Johnson City, NICU to the bouncing, happy baby he is now, is more proof needed to show how amazing our God is. Liam is approximately 17lbs and 27" long. A long way from the 4lb 2oz he was born at. He has five teeth, is crawling, standing up to any and everything, cruising around table tops, eats EVERYTHING put in front of him and LOVES antagonizing his big brother. In just 31 days, he will turn one, and what an occasion that will be. He is such a sweet baby, and although a little more maintenance than Jax was at the same age, there are no words to describe what he has brought to our family. He has come such a long way from birth to now and he's more determined than any 11 month old I know!

Jaxon had a big year as well. In the fall he started preschool and quickly became a class favorite as well as a teachers pet. He made several new friends and although we had to pull him out of school due to illness and Liam's health, he has forever made an impression on his classmates and the teachers at his school. We are hoping to re-enroll him after the threat of cold/flu season passes, but in the meantime, we continue to teach him at home, and every day I become more proud to be his Mommy! He is starting to read and right before his birthday, he started writing his name, alphabet and drawing beautiful pictures! In November, Jax turned THREE!!! He is 38" tall and in just one year went from wearing 18 month clothing to a size 8 shoe and 4T clothing. He is a huge fan of Disney's Cars, and is still every bit into Letters, Numbers, Shapes and Colors as he ever was. My wish for Jaxon as he starts this new year, is that he continues to love learning and discovering new things. He is definitely my little buddy, and although he knows how to push my limits, he makes me smile and love deeper than I ever thought I'd be able to.

Dean just finished up almost two years working for the company MECO, and with that comes the excitement and stress of a NEW job!!! Dean is going back into the wind industry. In December he accepted an offer for a company called Gamesa. They are the 3rd largest manufacturer of wind turbines in the world. Gamesa is based out of Spain with their American headquarters being in Langhorne, PA. He will be working as a representative of the company on various erection sites. His position will be that of a Technical Advisor. It will be his job to be present on the job site as the turbines are erected, answer any questions that the sub-contractors have, and rectify any issues that are deemed to be the fault of the manufacturer. This is a great job with a fantastic company. It will take some adapting as a family but will provide many opportunities for us. He will start January 2nd at the corporate headquarters for orientation and training and hopefully soon we'll find out which project he will initially be assigned to. We will definitely keep you posted on the details. I am thankful to have such a wonderful husband who continues to provide for our family. He truly is the greatest thing that has every happened to me. How I ever wound up with someone so smart, funny, and good looking is beyond me. I thank my lucky stars every day that I get to wake up next to such a hunk of a man. :)

I myself, have had the best year ever! Whoever told me that more than one child is a pain, is wrong!! I've had so much fun watching Jax become a big boy and such a loving brother! Liam has inspired me every day with each new thing he discovers and just in general how happy and healthy he is. While being a stay at home mom to two might be stressful and at times overwhelming, I'm am so blessed to have this be my job and all the time it allows me to be around my boys! It is the most rewarding job I'll ever have! In September I picked up a new hobby and learned to sew!! I don't know everything yet, but when I get an idea, I'm pretty quick to figure it out! In the upcoming months, my job as a wife and mom will be a little harder as we will be going with Dean to the wind projects he's assigned to. Thankfully I have a wonderful support system and know I will have lots of help!!

Our furbabies, Nash and Argo are doing great as well! Nash will be 7 years old in March, and Argo will be 2 years old in August! It will be fun to see how the next few months go with them, when it's time to travel!! They are definitely a part of our family, so no matter where we end up, we will have to make sure there is a place for them! We also FINALLY found Lily (our temporarily adopted feline) a FOREVER home! It was important, no matter what I say, that we placed her in a home with someone who would spoil and love her (Yes. I just said that. Didn't love her, but I do have a heart!) I can't believe my Nashman is a senior dog... That also means I've been in TN for seven whole years!!! My, my where has the time gone!???!

We are certainly excited about the year ahead of us and can't wait to share it all with you!

We have been so fortunate to have such a fantastic year, and are thankful for the countless blessings we have been given! Time for another bowl of black-eyed peas!!! ;)

Wishing you a year of love, happiness and health!!


Shylah, Dean, Jaxon and Liam

Monday, December 26, 2011

Merry Christmas!!!

Today is the day after... A path of destruction, mounds full of paper, boxes, a gazilllion choking hazards, and new cries and screaming of who's toys are who's, buuuut it was all worth it! Now we are in the process of trying to sneak the toys we came with into a suitcase and let the new ones come to life!




Dean, the boys and I had a wonderful Christmas! After not so patiently waiting for the boys to wake up, and finally having to jump on the bed, jingle bells, and shake the boys awake... We had two little ones with great big eyes running/crawling towards the tree! Santa brought Jax the BIG dinosaur he's been asking for, for months as well as a few other surprises, and Liam got an alphabet train that has Jax in total cahoots!! Daddy got a new toy that will have him eventually hoarding old credit cards, gift cards and any old ID cards lying around. So far he's made about 10 guitar picks with his new "pick punch". He's also smelling like the most amazing man ever with some new cologne that has me on cloud nine!!! I didn't do so shabby myself cuddled up with my new Seahawks hoodie, handmade slippers, and sportin' a new watch, earrings, and eagerly waiting to go spend my Christmas cash on new shoes, and a trip to bath and body works!!

We had a busy day spending time with family and enjoyed watching the kids fully entertain everyone around!!

Christmas's are always chaotic and busy, but getting to spend it with family and friends always makes it worth it!

Hope everyone had a wonderful Christmas and all those traveling make it back home safe and sound!!

Until next year, Merry Christmas from The Wards!!

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

All things Liam...

Well here we are again in WA, and my little Liam is not disappointing anyone with showing everyone what he is learning to do!! He has hit several new milestones since being at Gramma's house, yet again.

Since we got off the plane, he has cut two new teeth, learned to use a sippy cup, steal his brothers cup, clap his hands, pat-a-cake, stand up to any and everything and occasionally take one or two steps closer to what his goal is. He has also made some permanent teeth marks in my mom's coffee table that no one is admitting to witnessing or falling on their watch. Lol.

He is definitely curious and loves finding things to get into!! Sadly in just nine days, he will be 11 months. That's just one month shy of a year. One month shy of not being a baby... I am NOT ready for him to grow up, and so fast. Therefore I have decided that I will use his "adjusted age" to buy myself some more time lol. (no really!!)

I am very much looking forward to celebrating Liam's first Christmas with my family and having a special day being with cousins, Aunts, Uncles and Grandparents for him and Jaxon both.

Very proud of how much Liam has accomplished and while I am looking forward to his new discoveries and milestones, I really wish it didn't mean that he is growing up too.

Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Day 29 & 30...

Day 30 - Thankful for the blessings I have to enjoy even if it's just waking up each morning, 365 days a year.
It's funny how when you write down what you're thankful for each day, how much you tend to forget the simple things. I am so extremely privileged to have my health, family, friends, and the necessities I need to live.
I am also thankful for the 10 month old butter ball I've got jumping on my lap trying to give mommy kisses!!! :)

Day 29 - Thankful for my brother, for the love he's given me all of my life, and for that single relationship that made my decision to have two children so easy. I believe a sibling is simply the best gift a parent can give their children and although I know there will be days my boys fight and "hate" each other, that they will always HAVE each other...
(Thanks Mom for my brother, and thanks Deej for always being there for me).



Tuesday, November 29, 2011

Meet Marlin...

So, a few weeks ago I heard about a little Christmasey tradition called the Elf on the Shelf... When I first heard about this, a few years ago, I thought it was just a family's own personal tradition, but never really got in to the details of what it's all about... Two things: 1. Ingenious, and 2. WHY wasn't my mom the one who "invented" this game...


Ok, so as if children weren't scolded, and bribed and threatened enough at Christmastime, well now you have help. The whole Santa Claus is watching you thing works for a while, but pretty soon that whole thought is ignored, especially when YOU can't see HIM. Meet Marlin our "Scout Elf". Scout Elves are adopted and come to live with you and you only at the beginning of the Holidays. They are Santa's secret spy's who watch your children and report back to Santa Claus every night while the kids are sleeping... (Ingenious right!?!). When your Elf Scout returns late in the night or early in the morning back from the North Pole, he/she can have a lot of fun hiding in your home, and/or causing some pretty fun (innocent) mischief. There is a ton of things out there that I have heard these elves are capable of, but for the most part it's all fun and games. First thing in the morning, your are suppose to try and find where your elf is hiding (or where your elf landed after returning). So of course this is a fun game for the kids (and parents) when the morning starts. :) There is just ONE rule about your scout elf though. The one rule is that if you TOUCH your elf, he may lose his magical powers that allow him to report to Santa Claus. Of course Jax touched him, but that was BEFORE we named him, which is when the elf gets their magic... So they watch all that you do during the day, and can be placed in any room to keep an eye on them. On Christmas Eve is when they go back to the North Pole until next year.


So, without further adieu' this is Marlin. Marlin the Scout Elf. He came to live with us on Thanksgiving Night while we were at the Condo celebrating Thanksgismas!! He rang the doorbell, and waited for Jax to come to the door. Once we got him inside, we read the story that came with him. After the story was done we FINALLY got a name out of Jax. Thankfully MeMaw had a belated birthday present for Jax, and it was a set of letter books that were all about Disney Characters. Rachel pulled book by book out and searched through the books in hot pursuit of helping Jax pick a name for our elf. (It was like 10:30 by the time this whole thing went down, so Jaxon's attention span at that time was completely non-existent) BUT finally he settled on Marlin!!



Since being in our family, Marlin has been a lot of fun. He's played a few games, left Jax a note, and been a good spy for both Mommy and Santa! (I must admit though, he is kinda creepy looking).
If you haven't heard about the Elf on the Shelf, please check it out. It's really a cute story, and a lot of fun. I'm hoping to keep this a long lasting family tradition. We just watched the movie that came out on Thanksgiving, last night. (really wish I would have thought about this...)



Remember, even if you DON'T have an Scout Elf, Santa is STILL watching...

3 teeth...

Liam's finally cut his third tooth!!! :) If it's anything like the last two, I should be expecting number four in just a few days!! Maybe Liam will have his two front teeth for Christmas after-all...



Monday, November 28, 2011

Day 27 & 28...

Day 28 - Thankful for the gleam Jax has in his eyes about Christmas! Also very thankful that so far he's only asked Santa for one thing, (well two if you count Mack that Mommy and Daddy already gave him).

Day 27 - Thankful that all of the family that traveled over Thanksgiving weekend is all home, safe and sound! We had an amazing week visiting with family and friends!!!

Friday, November 25, 2011

Day 25...

Day 25 - 3 hours to get Jax FINALLY to sleep!!! Even through frustration, I am so absolutely in love with that little boy, especially when "I yuv you mommy" are his last words of the night... Yes, I'm thankful he is finally asleep!! :D





Thursday, November 24, 2011

Day 24...

Happy Thanksgiving!!!

Thankful for so much today. My amazing husband: my best friend, my "calmer" side, my heart. I could do so little without him by my side. My Bug: The joy of my life, the reason for countless smiles throughout the day, and my favorite 3 year old. My Baby Liam: My sweet little blessing, a true testament of what the Lord gives. Such a bundle of love and one I can't imagine our lives without.

My friends and family near and far, all of which have given me a reason to call them a friend and made me a better person.

My health, though not that of a typical 28 year old, but it could be worse, and I'm alive.

For food, shelter, and clothing on my back.

For the safety and health of my family members.

Mostly for my faith. I will always be on a journey of discovery, but I'm not judged by how little or much I know by the one that it matters to.

Hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving. I miss my family back "home", but am grateful for my Southern Family, and getting to see most every one, and very much looking forward to the weekend with my in-laws in Gaitlinburg!! :)

Love you all, and am thankful for each and every one of you!

Shylah


Wednesday, November 23, 2011

Day 23...

Day 23 - Thankful, Dean and my Dad in Law made it safely over the mountains, and am praying for safe LATE travels for the rest of the family. They still have a few hours to go, but we'll all be together tomorrow to start our wonderful family tradition of Thanksgismas!!!

:)



Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Day 21 and 22...

Day 22 - Thankful to and for my bestie, Annette for so graciously allowing the boys and I to stay the night and visit. I miss this girl DAILY, and am so blessed to have the relationship with her, that even if it's weeks or months before we can catch up with each other, we can always pick right up where we started last...

Day 21 - Thankful for my far away friends for offering me piece of mind on my upcoming travels to WA, that despite the snow, the roads I will be traveling on are usually kept up pretty well and **hopefully** will be just fine...



Sunday, November 20, 2011

Day 20...

Day 20 - Thankful for fingernails since I don't have a thimble...



Saturday, November 19, 2011

Day 19...

Day 19 - Thankful for a fun day I had with Jax!! We attended two birthday parties, and despite skipping nap to be at the zoo, Jax was VERY good, and pretty well behaved!

I love being able to give him special Mommy and Son outings and today was exceptional for us both!!

He got to feed squirrel monkeys, a giraffe, camels, (himself a carrot and a grape), and lorikeets!! :)



Feeding the squirrel monkeys...






He loved the giraffe!!



And he even got to pet a baby Red Kangaroo!! :)




Friday, November 18, 2011

Day 18...

Day 18 - Thankful for a roof over my head, food on my table, electricity to heat my home, and clothes to cover my back!

It's getting colder outside, please remember those who are less fortunate. Donations to your local food bank, and clothing drop off's are always accepting items to help those in need!!



Day 17...

Day 17 - Thankful for all the blessings that God has given me over the past three years, and most importantly, for choosing me to be Jaxon's Mommy!

I still can't believe that Jax is three years old! He is so handsome, funny, talented, bright and loving. Jax has definitely made my life richer with all the joy he has brought to my world! I have learned so much through his eyes! I love you Bug!

Thank you Lord, for my beautiful son on this very day!! :)





Thursday, November 17, 2011

Happy Birthday Jaxon...

On the day you turned 3…




On the day that you turned three,
We made your hand print for you to see
Just how much you had grown, since the day that you were born.
We looked into the mirror,
To see how BIG that you are now.
We took a picture for your baby book,
And practiced saying THREE.
We measured just how tall you are,
And put you on the scale.
37 inches tall today, and 28 lbs, Hooray!
We sang you Happy Birthday, and celebrated with a cake
We let you dress yourself today, oh the outfit that you made!
We asked you what you wanted to be
When you were all grown up like Daddy,
A RACE CAR Driver is what you said, as you raced around the house!
Before we tucked you into bed, we said a little prayer,
For you to have the best year yet, and enjoy all that you discover.

Happy Birthday Jaxon!
Mommy and Daddy love you SO much! We are so proud of all that you have learned in just 3 years, and can’t wait to see what this year holds for you.
Xoxo

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Day 16...

Day 16 - Thankful that after 3 separate delays, and spending ALL day in an airport, that Dean is finally safe on the ground and driving home now!!!

I HATE when I have family up in the air, and I'm forced to wait patiently for a call or text letting me know they're safe and on land again!!!

He'll be home for less than 20 hours before heading back to the airport and onto another business trip for me to worry about!!! :)




Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Jaxon Dean turns 3!!!

Over the past weekend, we celebrated Jaxon's 3rd Birthday. We chose to do the 12th so that family could come... (You know, living in East TN, everything revolves around college football, and this Saturday is a huge rival football game between UT/Vandy haha)...


I was extremely worried that it would be a disaster since I've only ever just had family and Jax. I've never had other children, and this year we invited a few of his classmates, and one of his other play buddies. I had 5 kids total including Jax, and as they were walking in I freaked out, thinking of all the crying I was sure to hear!!! Surprisingly, the party was a success! Only a few tears from one little guy, and pretty much expected it with the unveiling of the Power Wheel!!!



A few nights before, I had started the preparations for the party. Jax of course wanted a Cars themed party, and not one to be simple, I gave him a full on CARS Party! I made a hand made "Pin the Tire on Lightning" game, made a Stop Light for the game "Red Light, Green Light", and really tested my patience by baking and assembling Mator Cupcakes! I also searched high and low for the best "Non-Crap" Goodie bags for the boys and found things at the dollar store that were all Disney Car's and actually good toy, vs. the typical noise makers, candy, etc... that usually just gets tossed in the garbage. I was quite proud of myself.


After everyone arrived, and the parents and I had a team effort talk, we got the party started! We let the kids mingle for a while, and shortly after I got their attention, we played Pin the Tire on Lightning, which was pretty entertaining! Jax did REALLY good for never playing before. Two of the kids were older brothers, and they clearly had the tilt your head up and be able to see method down... Ha! After that, we ran through Red Light, Green Light, and again, the bigger kids dominated that game as well. When we were done with the games, we got down to business with the Mator Cakes and homemade ice cream. Rachel, my sister in law, had been sending me links to all these amazing, easy, kid friendly crafts, and one of them, was ice cream in a bag. Minus one parent/kid bag having a leak and getting stuff every where, it was a success and hit the spot with the cakes! Talk about a guilt free way to eat ice cream... you have to really work hard for 5-10 minutes before you enjoy, which actually gives you a good work out, so the calories don't really count, right?




After the sugar high... we got Jax and the kids sat down for presents. Man oh Man! Jax made out like a bandit! He got so many awesome gifts! From board games, activity books, dress up clothes and of course Cars toys, he really got a lot! After that, we blind folded Jax and brought the boys outside for the big reveal of his new truck! I know I was counting down the seconds for this, and I was just as happy to see his face as he was to see his new truck! As soon as he climbed in, it was on! All the boys went racing to jump in and take a ride with the birthday boy!!! A little intense, but again, I saw that coming. Jax drove his friends around, and even shared the driving, and let one of the older boys show him how it was done!!! I've had such a blast with him over the last few days and his new toys! Of course the funniest is the fact that to a kid, it can be a $5 toy or a really, really expensive toy... Gramma sent Jax a box of presents and in that box was a baby's letter book, that has A-Z, 1-10 and shapes and colors... And what toy do you think he liked the best... Hahaha... So happy that learning still takes precedence over new TOYS! :) I mean he definitely LOVES his truck, but he has to take his new letters book to bed, in the truck and every where else we go!


Jaxon's actual birthday is just a day and a half away now... I can't believe how fast the years have gone! My little guy is growing so fast, and getting too big!!!


All in all, I'm happy his 3rd birthday was so much fun for him. His friends had a good time, and Jax loved seeing everyone!!



Happy Birthday Jax!! Mommy and Daddy and Baby Liam LOVE YOU!!


Pictures from his party are to the right on the side bar.

Day 15...

Day 15 - Thankful for the laughter I get from my children!

Watched Liam grab, squish, smash and make a good effort on getting his table food in his mouth. Slowly but surely, I think he filled himself up.

Parents - take time to watch your children discover. It's such an amazing show! Each new thing they learn and accomplish is just another blessing!

Oh, and then Jax shared his humongous sucker with Liam! It was fun pulling it out of his hair and de-sticking from the side of his face!!

Now it's bath time!! ;)

Monday, November 14, 2011

Day 14...

Day 14 - Thankful that Liam is feeling better and back to squealing at the top of his lungs!!

Yesterday he had a fever of 102.5, today it was down to 101.5, but was accompanied by throwing up twice today... :/

It must have been a 24 hour bug, and now I'm crossing my fingers that Jax and I avoid it!!



Day 13...

(For yesterday...) Day 13 - I am THANKFUL for the Mommy/Son time I get to enjoy EVERY day!!

Got to play outside with Jax for a few HOURS yesterday, and cuddle Liam (who has a fever, hoping w/a tooth shortly). Then after getting Liam put to bed, Jax and I had game and movie night. We watched a Leap Frog movie with letters, and played Ants in Pants and three games of Memory!!
Ants in the Pants is insanely hard!! I let Jax play 4 pieces, and took the other 12 thinking I would still win... NOPE! Jax was on 3 and I had only gotten 6 pieces in. That was also in about 30 minutes!! Then he "beat" me twice in memory!! :)

Love my job!!



Saturday, November 12, 2011

Day 12...

Day 12 - Thankful for the friends and family we had today for Jaxon's birthday party! It was a huge success, and he had such a great time! His words were, "oh my birthday is my favorite like Mommy!" I am currently working on pictures and blog post from his party... :)

Friday, November 11, 2011

Day 11...

Day 11 - THANKFUL for all of our soldiers past and present who have fought, are fighting and those who have given the ultimate sacrifice in protecting our country and our freedom.

Happy Veterans Day 11-11-11!!



Thursday, November 10, 2011

Day 10...

Day 10 - THANKFUL that Dean is home from work, and that he is a very patient and calm husband.

HE can deal with the kids...

Wednesday, November 9, 2011

Day 9...

Day 9 - Thankful, that in a country full of different nationalities, that language means no barrier for a child...

Spent the morning at the park with the boys, and Jax and a little Romanian boy about the same size, had a ball chasing each other, swinging, sliding and throwing rocks in the creek together.

Gram-mama and I tried to carry on a conversation, but she spoke very little English, so all I gathered was the little boys name, age, and where his family is from. Jax was just happy to have someone to play with and both looked like they enjoyed their time!! There is so much to be learned through the eyes of a child...








Shylah

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Day 8...

Day 8 - I am THANKFUL to have laughter and smiles fill my home... :)



Monday, November 7, 2011

Day 7...

Day 7 - Thankful for the paths that God opens in mine and my family's life... There will always be doors you hope will open, doors you don't expect to open, and the ones that are meant to be open...



Sunday, November 6, 2011

Day 6...

Day 6 - Even though today started off as a day from hell, and the boys both teamed up on me, making getting any sleep a joke! I am THANKFUL for awakening to beautiful family photos, that are proof of what AWESOME is...




Saturday, November 5, 2011

Day 5...

Day 5 - I am THANKFUL for a beautiful family on a beautiful day, and the fact we are all still alive after a three hour family photo shoot!!

Friday, November 4, 2011

Day 4...

Day 4 - I am thankful that Dean will be back home tonight, after a 3 day business trip. Yay!!! Parent/Child Ratio will be back to 1!!!

Thursday, November 3, 2011

30 Days of Thankfulness...

There is a "challenge" going around on facebook, where you name one thing you are thankful for every day during the month of November. I don't typically do things like that on facebook, however I thought it was a cool "challenge" to do, so I thought I would share that on here as well. I will be posting something once a day...


Since I am behind a few days, I'll play catch up...


Day 3 - SO THANKFUL for my children. Both gave us a scare the day they were born, but both are here today for me to worry about now. They are both beautiful boys, such sweet souls, who have wonderful personalities I get to discover daily...


Day 2 - I am forever THANKFUL and grateful to my husband. He works hard to provide for our family, has never questioned my decision to become a stay at home mom, loves us all so amazingly, and is a fantabulous father.


Day 1 - I am THANKFUL for my family and friends. I have an amazing family both biological and married into, that I would not be where I am today without them.

Wednesday, November 2, 2011

Is it Spring yet?!?


Jax in his "Gas Mask" to avoid germs...


Well sadly, I am reporting that Jax will no longer be going to school this fall/winter.


After leaving Liam's Dr appt. yesterday, it was decided that I needed to pull Jax out of school for the cold and flu season because it's compromising Liam's health, badly.

Liam had his 9 month wellness checkup, and after learning that he is still fighting the congestion and breathing issues (wheezing, lung tightness, etc). and discovering he STILL has a lower bronchial infection, it seems to me and to Dr. Rick that exposing Liam to unnecessary germs and bugs is just asking for trouble and keeping him sick, so Dr. Rick asked me to withdrawal Jax from daycare/preschool until the cold/flu/rsv season comes to an end.

Yesterday was a hard day for me. Dr. Rick also diagnosed Liam with what is called Restrictive Airway Disease, which is a form of childhood asthma very common in premature babies, and specifically those who had under developed lungs at birth and other complications, which Liam clearly did. The good news is, most children outgrow the diagnosis usually by toddler age, before it really affects them and their lifestyle. The bad news is, it means for some sacrifices made by the family to keep Liam healthy. I now will have to be "THAT" Mom, who screens everyone for sicknesses, carries hand sanitizer, and attacks like a mama bear if someone tries to reach for my cub in anyway... Ok, maybe not that bad, but I do have to really enforce healthy habits before handling, touching, or visiting Liam. Hello even dryer skin and extra hand sanitizer!! :/

The worst is that Liam is close to being hospitalized for his breathing and the tightness in his lungs, and of course we don't want that. It wasn't clear to me that he was diagnosed with walking pneumonia, but the way his lungs sounded to the doctor, it's developing into that, or he's being treated similarly. Now we must do breathing treatments every 6 hours vs. twice a day, and he is on yet another round of steroids and antibiotics to clear the excess fluid around his lungs and the tightness in his chest. Not only that, I have to pull Jax out of school. Unfortunately today is his last day. I didn't tell him why, I just told Jax that school was going to be out for the winter and the holiday's (not technically a lie right?), but starting next week, I will be taking him to Nana's to spend a few days each week doing "school" at her house, which will give Jax and I a break, and is still something special Jax can look forward to! :)

We will also hopefully be able to have play dates with some of his school mates, most importantly his BEST FRIEND Ryland. (Oh it breaks my heart, he talks about Ryland CONSTANTLY). But again, it's for Liam and his health is the number one factor.

We're hoping that after today, we can focus on getting Liam back on track, and that once he is healthy and 100% that we can keep him that way over this season... Once the initial risk is over, we can enroll Jax back in school and hopefully by then Liam's immune system will be stronger and we won't have this issue again...

Besides Liam being "broken". He is growing great height/weight wise. He actually lost some weight in the past few weeks with being sick and is 14lbs. 13oz which SUCKS, but Dr. Rick assured me it's ok, and that he is still on track. He is growing lengthwise just fine and is now 26" long (DJ and Amanda, has Kenley totally passed her cousin yet?!? lol). We also get to start table foods since Liam refuses any and ALL types of baby food other than cereal and sweet potatoes... so now I get to start again (hopefully with a different success rate) at having a good eater! Come on hamburgers and hot dogs!!!!

Hope everyone is doing well!

Shylah

Halloween 2011...

Here are some pictures of the boys on Halloween! It was such a fun night. Early in October, we asked Jax what he thought he might want to dress up as or what he wanted to pretend to be for Halloween. He immediately said that he wanted to be a pirate, and that Baby Liam should be his parrot. Of course we had to go with that idea because who wouldn't, it was such a cute response!!!

So we set out to find Jax a costume that would actually fit him and a costume for Liam as well. After a few weeks procrastination on the prices of children's costume's and finding only one parrot costume for a baby that would have swallowed Liam whole, I decided to make Liam's costume, and we finally found a $10 costume for Jax! :) I can only imagine how much fun it will be next year to dress the boys up and take them trick or treating!!!Jax had some issues with Mommy making his face a mess, but after he saw himself in the mirror and the reactions people were giving him, he was okay with it. Liam did pretty good too! We went to Nana and Pop's house first to show off the boys. Lol... when Harrell opened the door and exclaimed there was a scary pirate at his door, Jax gave him the most confused look responding with, "I not Scarrrry. I am Jaxon! I not scary". He then decided to "trade" candy with Pop's rather than just accept a new piece. Apparently Jaxon works on a barter system as well...After we left Nana and Pop's, we decided to hit one neighborhood that had close houses for Jax to actually trick or treat at. He was very hesitant at first, and didn't quite know what to do, but I'd say by the third house, and the happy faces and that he was getting HANDFULS of candy, that he figured it out very quickly. Then he was running up driveways and to the doors, knocking, then turning his body away until someone opened the door. THEN he thought he got to go in EVERYONE'S house lol... It was fun night indeed!

We also stopped by Jaxon's school, but that didn't last very long. Last year it was great, they had a game factory set up just for toddlers, since they are typically too young to go door to door. This year it was like NYC in a small gym with lots of big kids knocking the little ones out of the way... I think we stayed 15 minutes before leaving and heading home. We hit a few more houses on the way home, and by 9:30 by little pirate was out!!!

Hope everyone had a good Halloween and lots of little spooks come by!

Shylah

Friday, October 14, 2011

Fall weather brings Sick Kids...

Well once again, the leaves are changing and the weather is getting cooler, which brings all the wonderful things like sweatshirt weather, football, holiday's, annnnnd sickness.


We have been battling a combination of allergies and cold bugs since the beginning of September, but having a preemie born w/breathing issues brings a whole nother realm of keeping my kids germ free and healthy.

A few weeks ago Liam came down with a terrible cough, and we are pretty sure it was due to the roller coaster weather we have here in TN. ONE day it's 89 the next it's 45... all of us felt bad. But after September came to an end, Liam got this AWFUL cough, wasn't sleeping, eating, and just wanted to be held. So on the 3rd we took him in hoping it was still just allergies... NOPE. Liam had a double ear infection caused by ongoing congestion. So we started him on antibiotics, which I'm not a fan of, but it has seemed to help. 9 days into being treated for that, he continued coughing, not sleeping, and started wheezing. I can't afford to take any chances with Liam, and with pneumonia going around in record numbers this year, I took him back in to the doctor only to learn he not only developed a pretty bad case of Croup, but also has a lower bronchial infection that they are hoping we caught early enough, before turning into a more severe viral infection.

Soooo we left the dr's office yesterday with a prescription for a steroid as well as a nebulizer and instructions for am/pm breathing treatments for up to one month. :(

Liam had a better day today, however with Croup, symptoms develop late in the evening and worsen throughout the night and into early morning... with him not sleeping at night, it's hard for him to get better, but hopefully in the next day or two, he'll get some comfort and finally turn the corner on feeling better!!

So far Jax has been ok, but we're watching close that he doesn't come down w/anything and keep the bug from rebounding with Liam.

Jax has also done a good job helping us care for Baby Liam, and not only being extra sweet since Liam is sick, but giving him check-up's to ensure he is in fact getting better... :)

These photos are from today...





Maybe, just maybe we'll have a doctor in the family...

Hoping everyone is doing good, and will say a little prayer for Liam to kick this bug!! I hate when my babies are sick and miserable. I'm doing my best to keep him comfortable, but it's hard when all he wants is mommy... :/

We will follow up with the Dr. on Monday if he hasn't started to feel better! Will keep y'all posted

Xoxo
Shylah

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Just a random thought...

Ever wonder how you know someone's perfect for you? Whether it be your spouse, a really good friend, or your children... Your hand always fits perfectly in theirs...

While snuggling the boys tonight, I held Liam's hand rocking him to sleep... Even though it's small and fragile, his fingers fit perfectly in mine...

Then I laid next to Jaxon, and kissed his forehead and held his sleeping little hand too... Another perfect fit...

It's little things like this I never take for granted, and grow to love more and more each day...

Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Meet the Greene County March of Dimes Ambassador...

This morning Liam and I had the opportunity to meet with our local March of Dimes Community Director and discuss being the 2011-2012 Ambassador Family for the Greene County (Appalachian Division) Chapter.

I am not 100% sure of what all that entails, but nonetheless, I am very excited to continue to bring awareness on the issues of premature births to our region, and share Liam's amazing story.


The March of Dimes has been our charity of choice since Jaxon was born, and now even more so knowing that the research MOD does went specifically into the care of Liam while he was in the NICU makes it even more of a cause to support. I am just thrilled to be involved in something so near and dear to my heart, and have the opportunity to share our story and hopefully bless other families with support and guidance that we received from other families that have been down the same road.

I'll hopefully be getting some more details on Friday, but just know that this year when I ask you to make a donation to this cause, that it will all be in our family's name, specifically Liam as the Ambassador Child!

Monday, September 26, 2011

Anniversary Weekend-Getaway...

Man! What a fun filled week we just had. On Tuesday Dean, the boys and I went to Nashville, mostly for "Anniversary Weekend", but because Dean had a two day career conference which gave me and the boys some time to visit w/friends and family!

It was so funny... Ever have one of those 'Pretty Woman' moments? So we're staying at the Renaissance hotel in downtown Nashville, which is really nice anyways... Leave it to me to trash it up lol. First we're carrying in bags and bags of toys, food, diaper bags, etc... I would say this is one of the least child friendly hotels... So here come the Wards with two kids and just stuff everywhere... So the next day, I'm on my way down to the lobby to get coffee... this is where I had my Pretty Woman moment... I am waiting for the elevator, wearing my usual: shorty shorts, beer tshirt, flip flops, hair a mess... the elevator doors open, and there are nothing but men decked out in their finest... Uh... yeah. Lol... So I start whistling "Pretty Woman" thankfully a few caught my humour. I didn't realize half of the people that were attending this conference were politicians... it was the Governors Conference... so yes... I was slightly embarrassed, but I wouldn't expect any less of myself in a situation like this.
After that, I loaded the boys up, and we started making our rounds to visit with some friends. We spent lunch with my old co-workers. It was so good to see them all, and have everyone see what a big boy Jaxon is now, and finally get to meet Mr. Liam. Both were good, and thankfully Jax remembered the conference room doors were all glass. Usually he runs full force into them, and then we spend the entire time with tears and a red goose egged forehead. We had a good visit there, and while I miss all the people, I really don't miss the work place.


That evening we met up with Nana, so she could take the boys so that Dean and I could have date night and celebrate our anniversary. We went to our favorite restaurant, the Old Hickory Steak House at Opry Land Hotel. LOVE that place. We had a balcony table, an amazing waiter, and best of all, Dean had arranged before hand to have a rose waiting on the table. Of course, I didn't catch on until he pointed out that none of the other tables had a rose... :) After dinner we walked around to check out what changes had been done to the hotel. This is the first time I had been back after the flooding, most of the areas looked the same, but you could definitely tell everything was new!


We checked out the new Jack Daniels Saloon, and planned on going out downtown afterwards, but Dean had to be up early for the last day of the conference. We had a great time though, and enjoyed a very much NEEDED date night.

The next day, after Dean was through with the conference, we headed out to the Bicentennial State Park and showed the boys where we got married, and let Jax run out his energy. It was a beautiful day to be outside, (wish our wedding day felt that good!). Then we headed out to stay with some of our family friends, Pam and Sparky. Jax was so happy that they had two puppies and "kids" for him to play with! We got a lot of good visiting in with them, and got a play date in with one of my besties and her family as well.
The best day of the weekend was going to the Titans game, a tradition Dean and I started for our anniversary. When we had purchased tickets a few months ago, we decided not to splurge and just try to get the best upper level seats we could... well that didn't last long. As we were walking over to the stadium, we just happened to see a man selling FRONT ROW tickets... Dean and I just looked at each other, debated a little, then decided that since it was for our anniversary and that we usually only go one time a year, that it was worth the splurge. We ended up paying a little bit more, but he reduced them with the trade for our tickets... so we ended up on the front row, on the 10 yd line on the visitors side. Thankfully we were sitting by Titans fans for the most part. There were a few Bronco's fans, but they weren't that bad. It was a gorgeous day, still wamer than I wanted, but not too awfully hot. I ended up pretty pink by the end of the game! Funny thing though, since the Titans got Hasselbeck, apparently they have started "the 12th Titan" initiative... Not sure how I feel about that knowing that for the NFL at least, it started in Seattle and has been a pretty special tradition for Seahawks to raise the "12th Man" Flag and be as loud as any stadium (Qwest Field has broken several records now). Oh well, maybe TN is just trying to make Hasselbeck feel welcomed? It was a fun game though! Most of the action sadly happened on the opposite side of the field, but we did get to see the winning TD right in front of us, our side and all, and after that, the Broc's fans got up and walked our REAL fast! We had a great time, got to visit with lots of our family friends, and celebrate four wonderful years together! Now back to real life, and getting the kiddo's back on a schedule!



Hope everyone is doing well!


Xoxo

Shylah

Thursday, September 22, 2011

4 years...

Today is Dean and I's FOUR YEAR ANNIVERSARY!!!

It all started in December 2005... I needed to meet new people and make some friends my age, so a few of my co-workers invited me out to a bar on 2nd Ave. in downtown Nashville.

That night, I was going out to see this "amazing, super fiiiine" country singer, at least that's what Pam and Rosie said... I'll never forget walking into that bar. It was dirty and grimy and nothing that I really wanted to be in, let alone that I'd expect to meet my future husband in.
The girls and I got our drinks, and settled in for what I figured would be another trashy karaoke experience where I would end up singing, get rave reviews, and be on my way, back to my quiet apartment with my jammies on and snuggling my pet rabbit and my new black bouncing ball of energy, lab. I'd be in bed before nine and up early to go to work the next morning.
Well of course that's not what happened. Nope, I was instantly entertained and quite impressed with this "show" the people that worked at this place were putting on. There was a country singer, a rocker, a long haired surfer guy singing 'Johnny Be Good', two other guys, (one with dreads, and the other with a baby face) singing harmonies with all the other staff jamming out on broken instruments "backing" long haired surfer dude. That guy is the one I was totally "in to". By the time I had gotten up to sing, I had lost the thought of being bored, and now I was actively trying to impress this group of performers, specifically the long haired surfer boy. Apparently I did that well, because before I had left, I ended up landing a job and a few phone numbers as well.

A few months later, at the beginning of March, I was working at that grimy little bar. I got paid to have fun, drink and sing. I was also setting the stones to a boyfriend, a proposal, a wedding and two beautiful children...


If you would have told me six years ago, I would have met the love of my life at a bar, be married a year and a half after, pregnant six months into our marriage and moving all over the place raising babies, I would have laughed and asked for another drink. But, here we are. :)


Four years is not the biggest anniversary, no. But it is FOUR years. And in those four years Dean and I have had many, many up's. A few down's. An amazing amount of laughter and fun. One of the worst knock out drag out fights. Two of the scariest moments in our lives, the hardest month in our history, with a child in a NICU. The best family cuddles, three homes, lots of traveling and trips to Disney World. The most amazing kisses. Losses and additions, some hard times, but certainly the best times.

I don't think either of us would have guessed we'd be where we are now, let alone with two babies... But we are, and we know we are in the right place! We've only been married Four years... We still have a lifetime of memories to make, adventures to take and along the way, there will be bumps, detours, little hills and mountains... But I'm definitely looking forward to the trouble we'll get in to, the laughs we'll share and holding Dean's hand the entire way!

Here's to a lifetime of loving you Babe! Thank you for being a wonderful Husband, an AMAZING father to our boys, and mostly for being the greatest friend I've ever had!

I love you!